Some people just seem to find life easy, and bounce from one accomplishment to another. Whereas there are also those who live at the other end of the spectrum, and make a mess of everything they do. So we have the victorious and the victimised - and they can generally be differentiated by their attitudes.
To realise your target weight on a diet program, you must assume the attitude of a victor. The victims attempt diets in a hesitant manner, hoping for good things, but never really believing they're worthy of getting the figure they want. Victors wholeheartedly buy-in to a triumphant result, and use emotion to back their actions.
Take two tennis players about to play for a championship. One says "It's my last go - I'll give it my best efforts," but the other one says "Winning is EVERYTHING to me." Who do you think is taking the cup home with him?
'Oar' can be used to describe a victor who paddles his way to the winning post. O is for ownership, A is for accountability and R is for responsibility. We can define the victim by the word BED (Blame, Excuses and Denial) - a person who stays in bed and gives up.
Not relying on others, but taking ownership of the job is a strong characteristic of a victor. He takes account of his actions by taking them seriously. He sees things through by tackling problems instead of creating them. He doesn't take excuses from himself and is responsible for the outcome of his activities.
In the victim's eyes, there's always a reason why he doesn't achieve, and it's seldom to do with himself. It's always someone else's fault - he feels out of control so justifies it by blaming someone else. He always makes excuse for his lack of performance, but the only person he's persuading is himself. After repeating this pattern of blame and excuses for long enough, the victim lives a life of denial, convinced that there's absolutely nothing he can do about his situation.
To stack the odds in their favour, a mental work-out may be needed for some dieters approaching a life-changing eating program. Adopting the victim's outlook will prevent a person from controlling the outcome.
Attitudes (both good and bad) are simply habits, and with constant repetition they can be altered. When you're alone with your thoughts, are you thinking like a victim? If the answer is yes, then take control right away. Don't think others are better than you - it's just that some people have fought their demons and come out on top.
We don't start out as victors, we learn the habits of victors to accomplish our goals. In order to maintain successful weight management, we first have to maintain a successful attitude. - 29161
To realise your target weight on a diet program, you must assume the attitude of a victor. The victims attempt diets in a hesitant manner, hoping for good things, but never really believing they're worthy of getting the figure they want. Victors wholeheartedly buy-in to a triumphant result, and use emotion to back their actions.
Take two tennis players about to play for a championship. One says "It's my last go - I'll give it my best efforts," but the other one says "Winning is EVERYTHING to me." Who do you think is taking the cup home with him?
'Oar' can be used to describe a victor who paddles his way to the winning post. O is for ownership, A is for accountability and R is for responsibility. We can define the victim by the word BED (Blame, Excuses and Denial) - a person who stays in bed and gives up.
Not relying on others, but taking ownership of the job is a strong characteristic of a victor. He takes account of his actions by taking them seriously. He sees things through by tackling problems instead of creating them. He doesn't take excuses from himself and is responsible for the outcome of his activities.
In the victim's eyes, there's always a reason why he doesn't achieve, and it's seldom to do with himself. It's always someone else's fault - he feels out of control so justifies it by blaming someone else. He always makes excuse for his lack of performance, but the only person he's persuading is himself. After repeating this pattern of blame and excuses for long enough, the victim lives a life of denial, convinced that there's absolutely nothing he can do about his situation.
To stack the odds in their favour, a mental work-out may be needed for some dieters approaching a life-changing eating program. Adopting the victim's outlook will prevent a person from controlling the outcome.
Attitudes (both good and bad) are simply habits, and with constant repetition they can be altered. When you're alone with your thoughts, are you thinking like a victim? If the answer is yes, then take control right away. Don't think others are better than you - it's just that some people have fought their demons and come out on top.
We don't start out as victors, we learn the habits of victors to accomplish our goals. In order to maintain successful weight management, we first have to maintain a successful attitude. - 29161
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